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Matthew 10:39 - Living for Jesus or for Self?

Mat.10:39: Living for Jesus or for Self?

Mat 10:39 (EAV)  Whoever finds his [lower] life will lose it 
[the higher life], and whoever loses his [lower] life on My account 
will find it [the higher life]. 

DEVOTIONAL PEARL

The only way to gain our life (and get control of our life) is 
to submit ourselves to God through Jesus Christ.  By living for 
ourselves, we have become slaves to material success, work, alcohol, 
illicit sex, or any number of other destructive behaviors.  We have lost 
control of our life and are in trouble.  By giving our life to Jesus, we 
allow him to cleanse us of our addictions and show us the way to real 
life - a life free of destructive dependencies.  And as we follow 
God's will for us, we will begin to experience a meaningful life in 
the present, while also finding eternal peace with God.  [Life 
Recovery SB] 

THE FOLLOWING IS FOR THOSE WHO DESIRE DEEPER STUDY:

CONTENT; What's in the verse; Translations; Paraphrase; Word 
Study:  

Mat 10:39 (KJV)  He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he 
that loseth his life for my sake shall find it. 

Mat 10:39 (NCV)  Those who try to hold on to their lives will 
give up true life. Those who give up their lives for me will hold on 
to true life. 

Mat 10:39 (EAV)  Whoever finds his [lower] life will lose it 
[the higher life], and whoever loses his [lower] life on My account 
will find it [the higher life]. 

Mat 10:39 (CWR)  If your only concern is to hold on to life, 
you'll lose it, but if you're willing to lose your life for my sake, 
you'll find it. 

CONTEXT; What's around the verse; Overview; Topic:

Overview
Jesus commissioned the Twelve (10:1-4). He instructed them on an 
immediate preaching mission (vv. 5-16), and spoke of future challenges 
(vv. 17-31). Jesus explained what He expects of disciples (vv. 32-39) 
and the disciple's reward (vv. 40-42).  A demoralized John was 
encouraged (11:1-6) and praised (vv. 7-19) by Jesus, who damned the cities 
that refused to repent despite His miracles (vv. 20-24). Yet the 
weary who come to Jesus will find rest (vv. 25-30). [The 365-Day 
Devotional Commentary] 

Chapter Topics
1 Christ sendeth out his twelve apostles, enabling them with 
power to do miracles, 5 giveth them their charge, teacheth them, 16 
comforteth them against persecutions: 40 and promiseth a blessing to those 
that receive them. [SDA Commentary] 

Chapter Summary
Jesus sends His twelve disciples out to teach and preach. He 
equips them for this ministry with power over demons and diseases 
(10:1-5). Their powers, however, were not to be used for selfish purposes. 
Like Christ, they were to travel in poverty, dependent on the 
willingness of those to whom they ministered to meet their basic needs for 
food and lodging (vv. 6-15). Jesus warns them to expect hostility as 
well as welcome--something believers throughout the ages have known. 
Their goal, as ours, is not to be successful or popular, but to live 
humbly as Jesus did, taking His trust in the Father as our example, and 
refusing to fear man (vv. 16-31). The message the disciples carry is the 
most critical in the world. It's not a message intended to bring 
earthly peace, for it will stir up opposition. Yet its acceptance or 
rejection determines each person's eternal destiny (vv. 32-42). [Victor 
Bible Reader's Companion] 

Matt. 10:32-42. What are the marks of Jesus' disciples, and 
their rewards? We can list the following.  A disciple of Jesus 
acknowledges Him before men (v. 32). A disciple of Jesus places loyalty to 
Christ above even the bonds of family (vv. 34-35). A disciple of Jesus 
takes up his cross and follows Jesus, a phrase which means subjecting 
one's will to God even as Jesus chose to subject Himself to the cross 
(v. 38). A disciple of Jesus surrenders all for the sake of his LORD 
(v. 37). (See Matt. 16 for "taking up the cross" and "losing 
oneself.") 
So far it seems that the disciple's life is all "give up" and no 
"gain." But there are rewards! In the world of the New Testament a 
person's representative was treated as that person himself. As Jesus' 
disciples minister, some will welcome them as Christ's emissaries. Those 
who do so will gain rewards in the world to come--and the follower of 
Jesus will have the joy of knowing that it was through him or her that 
others were thus blessed. The Apostle Paul put it this way in his 
Letter to the Thessalonians: "For what is our hope, our joy, or the 
crown in which we will glory in the presence of our LORD Jesus when He 
comes? Is it not you? Indeed, you are our glory and joy" (1 Thes. 
2:19). 
You and I, with Paul, have the same joy in discipleship that 
Jesus had in fulfilling His mission. Jesus had the joy of knowing that 
because of His faithfulness, many would be saved. As others respond to 
our witness to Christ, we who share Christ's sufferings in 
discipleship will also experience this joy. [The 365-Day Devotional 
Commentary] 

Section Headings

The Meaning of Discipleship
Jesus prepares the disciples for persecution  (10:17-42)
Tell People About Your Faith
Not Peace, but a Sword  (10:34-39)
Renouncing self to follow Jesus  (10:37-39)

CROSS REFERENCES; What's in verses elsewhere.

Matthew 16:25-26 (KJV)  For whosoever will save his life shall 
lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it. 
[26] For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, 
and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his 
soul?  

Mark 8:35-36 (KJV)  For whosoever will save his life shall lose 
it; but whosoever shall lose his life for my sake and the gospel's, 
the same shall save it. [36] For what shall it profit a man, if he 
shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?  

Luke 17:33 (KJV)  Whosoever shall seek to save his life shall 
lose it; and whosoever shall lose his life shall preserve it.  

John 12:25 (KJV)  He that loveth his life shall lose it; and he 
that hateth his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal.  

Philip. 1:20-21 (KJV)  According to my earnest expectation and 
my hope, that in nothing I shall be ashamed, but that with all 
boldness, as always, so now also Christ shall be magnified in my body, 
whether it be by life, or by death. [21] For to me to live is Christ, 
and to die is gain.  

2 Tim. 4:6-8 (KJV)  For I am now ready to be offered, and the 
time of my departure is at hand. [7] I have fought a good fight, I 
have finished my course, I have kept the faith: [8] Henceforth there 
is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the 
righteous judge, shall give me at that day: and not to me only, but unto 
all them also that love his appearing.  

Rev. 2:10 (KJV)  Fear none of those things which thou shalt 
suffer: behold, the devil shall cast some of you into prison, that ye 
may be tried; and ye shall have tribulation ten days: be thou 
faithful unto death, and I will give thee a crown of life.  

COMMENTARY / APPLICATION: Moving From The Head To The Heart.
What is God teaching here? What does it teach about Jesus? 
How can it improve my relationship with Jesus.

The phrase "finding one's life" means that a person seeks his 
own pleasure and passions in life. It is a selfish life, finding out 
what pleases self and going after it. It is heaping and hoarding and 
doing as self wills. It is finding out what gives self life and 
pleasure on this earth and doing it.... [Preacher's Outline & Sermon 
Bible] 

Those who think to "find" life by living for the things this 
world has to offer are laboring "for the meat which perisheth" [SDA 
Commentary] 

The phrase "loseth one's life" means that a person seeks to lose 
his life on this earth in order to find God. It means that a person 
gives up the right to order his own life, and he lets Christ control 
his life. It means that a person's pursuit must be all consuming, 
that a person diligently seeks after God. When a person is consumed 
with finding God, the things of the world just fade away.... In 
addition, Christ says that he will find life, both abundant and eternal. 
[Preacher's Outline & Sermon Bible] 

The Christian may have to sacrifice his personal ambitions, the 
ease and the comfort that he might have enjoyed, the career that he 
might have achieved; he may have to lay aside his dreams, to realize 
that shining things of which he has caught a glimpse are not for him. 
He will certainly have to sacrifice his will, for no Christian can 
ever again do what he likes; he must do what Christ likes. In 
Christianity there is always some cross, for it is the religion of the 
Cross.... The man who seeks first ease and comfort and security and the 
fulfillment of personal ambition may well get all these things--but he will 
not be a happy man; for he was sent into this world to serve God and 
his fellow-men.... The way to serve others, the way to fulfill God's 
purpose for us, the way to true happiness is to spend life selflessly, 
for only thus will we find life, here and hereafter. [Barclay 
Commentary] 

This verse is a positive and negative statement of the same 
truth: clinging to this life may cause us to forfeit the best from 
Christ in this world and in the next. The more we love this life's 
rewards (leisure, power, popularity, financial security), the more we 
will discover how empty they really are. The best way to enjoy life, 
therefore, is to loosen our greedy grasp on earthly rewards so that we can 
be free to follow Christ. In doing so, we will inherit eternal life 
and begin at once to experience the benefits of following Christ. 
[Life Application SB] 

This verse is another of those pregnant sayings which our Lord 
so often reiterates . The pith 
of such paradoxical maxims depends on the double sense attached to 
the word "life"-- a lower and a higher, the natural and the 
spiritual, the temporal and eternal. An entire sacrifice of the lower, with 
all its relationships and interests-- or, which is the same thing, a 
willingness to make it-- is indispensable to the preservation of the higher 
life; and he who cannot bring himself to surrender the one for the 
sake of the other shall eventually lose both. (Jamieson, Fausset, and 
Brown Commentary) 

Here the word life means the natural life as opposed to the 
spiritual life.  That is, to pursue one's natural well-being at the 
expense of the spiritual, or eternal, is a fatal mistake. [Annotated SB 
mod]  

He that is anxious to save his "temporal" life, or his comfort 
and security here, shall lose "eternal" life, or shall fail of 
heaven. He that is willing to risk or lose his comfort and "life" here 
for my sake, shall find "life" everlasting, or shall be saved. 
(Barnes' Notes) 

Only in Christ is life to be found, real life, everlasting life; 
to cling to the life of this world, the doomed and forfeited life 
of man dead in his sins, means losing the only real life there is. 
[Concordia SB]  

The disciple must die to self-will; God's will must become his 
will. He may have to give up his own plans and ambitions, perhaps even 
his life... He whose goal is merely to preserve his physical life 
will lose all that makes life worthwhile. He who gives up his own 
interests for Jesus will find a fulfilled life here and blessing 
throughout eternity. [Passages Of Life SB] 

The only way to gain our life (and get control of our life) is 
to submit ourselves to God through Jesus Christ.  By living for 
ourselves, we have become slaves to material success, work, alcohol, 
illicit sex, or any number of other destructive behaviors.  We have lost 
control of our life and are in trouble.  By giving our life to Jesus, we 
allow him to cleanse us of our addictions and show us the way to real 
life - a life free of destructive dependencies.  And as we follow 
God's will for us, we will begin to experience a meaningful life in 
the present, while also finding eternal peace with God.  [Life 
Recovery SB] 

Each person has his own light to keep burning; and if the 
heavenly oil is emptied into these lamps through the golden pipes; if the 
vessels are emptied of self, and prepared to receive the holy oil, light 
will be shed on the sinner's path to some purpose...... Each 
consecrated vessel will daily have the holy oil emptied into it to be 
emptied out into other vessels..... The capacity for receiving the holy 
oil from the two olive trees is increased as the receiver empties 
that holy oil out of himself in word and action to supply the 
necessities of other souls. 6T116, 7 

Oil of Kindness
I recall reading some years ago in a newspaper article about an 
old man who carried a small can of "3-In-One Oil" with him wherever 
he went.  When he passed through a door that squeaked he squirted a 
little oil on the hinges.  If a gate was hard to open, he oiled the 
latch ... and thus he passed through life lubricating all the 
squeaking places, making life more pleasant for those who came after him 
... an unusual procedure, yet he derived a great deal of pleasure in 
doing it. 
We see others doing similar deeds like this by planting 
flowers/shrubs along the roadway or picking up litter, planting trees in 
unsightly places or like the good neighbor this Christmas who decorated a 
tree along the rail road to enhance the area with a little beauty. 
In our lives, there are many opportunities for us to perhaps 
spread a little oil of kindness where it will make a big difference in 
a small way.  There's no telling how many lives we may keep from 
rusting and squeaking, how many gates to happiness we may oil that will 
make a life a little easier.  Pastor Fate Thomas 

Wise are the words of the martyr Jim Elliot who said, "He is no 
fool, who gives what he cannot keep, to gain what he cannot lose."  
What is the Lord requiring of you?  Do you need to heed His words 
from this passage?  For this man, there didn't seem to be a middle 
ground, no compromise.  The Lord still permits no compromises today. 
Anything more precious to you than God must be given away immediately. If 
you will it, God will give you the strength to do it and come into a 
right relationship with Him! [In His Time; Walk With Wisdom Re 
Mar.10:21]