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Revelation 2:4, 5 - The Priority of Relationship.

Revelation 2:4, 5 (NIV) Yet I hold this 
against you: You have forsaken your first love. 5 
Remember the height from which you have fallen! 
Repent and do the things you did at first. If you 
do not repent, I will come to you and remove 
your lampstand from its place. 

Revelation 2:4, 5 (NLT) But I have this 
complaint against you. You dont love me or each 
other as you did at first! 5 Look how far you have 
fallen! Turn back to me and do the works you did at 
first. If you dont repent, I will come and 
remove your lampstand from its place among the 
churches. 

COMMENTARY PEARL

   Ephesus was the home of a tremendous 
ministry. Despite harsh persecution, the church 
planted by Paul endured opposition, spread the 
gospel, and was quick to challenge false prophets. 
But 30 years after the apostle left, Johns 
revelation included a stern warning for those 
believers. 
   Imagine how the words of Revelation 2 
must have struck the Ephesians when they read 
them. After complimenting their service to the 
gospel, Christ said, But I have this against 
you... That phrase was no doubt extremely 
disconcerting. The Lord warned them that they had left 
their first love. In other words, all of Their 
Work Was Being Done With Wrong Motives. 
   Christ called the Ephesians to remember 
their love for Him and their delight in His 
salvation. Service Is No Substitute For An Intimate 
Relationship, but modern believers continue to fall into 
this subtle trap. The commendable things that we 
do count for nothing unless they stem from a 
vibrant personal connection with God. Our Work 
Cant Be Effective Or Fruitful Unless He Is In 
It. 
   In fact, God is more interested in you 
and your personal relationship with Him than in 
a thousand lifetimes of good works. He desires 
to be the satisfaction and delight of His 
children so that their service is a result of loving 
devotion. 
   There are plenty of wrong reasons to 
labor for the kingdom. However, God is satisfied 
only with service motivated by love for Him. He 
wants those with selfish intentions to return to 
their first love. In that way, hearts and minds 
can be renewed, and service to the Lord will be 
more fruitful. [In Touch Daily Devotional by 
Charles Stanley at www.intouch.org] 

COMMENTARY

They had lost their zeal for God. They were 
a busy church - the members did much to 
benefit themselves and the community - but they were 
acting out of the wrong motives. Work for God must 
be motivated by love for God or it will not 
last. [Life Application SB] 

Just as when a man and woman fall in love, 
so also new believers rejoice at their newfound 
forgiveness. But when we lose sight of the seriousness of 
sin, we begin to lose the thrill of our 
forgiveness. In the first steps of your Christian life, 
you may have had enthusiasm without knowledge. 
Do you now have knowledge without enthusiasm? 
Both are necessary if we are to keep love for God 
intense and untarnished. Do you love God with the 
same fervor as when you were a new Christian? 
[Life Application SB] 

   The warmth of their first love is frozen 
up, and unless they are watered over by the 
baptism of the Holy Spirit, their candlestick will 
be removed out of its place, except they repent 
and do their first works. The first works of the 
church were seen when the believers sought out 
friends, relatives, and acquaintances, and with 
hearts overflowing with love told the story of what 
Jesus was to them and what they were to 
Jesus..... 
   Selfishness mars all that unconsecrated 
workers do. They have need to pray always, but they 
do not. They need to watch unto prayer. They 
have need to feel the sacredness of the work, but 
they do not feel this. They handle sacred things 
as they do common things. Spiritual things are 
spiritually discerned, and until they can drink of the 
water of life, and Christ be in them as a well of 
water springing up unto everlasting life, they 
will refresh no one, bless no one; and except 
they repent, their candlestick will be removed 
out of its place. There is need of enduring 
patience, of invincible charity, of omnipotent faith 
in the work of saving souls. Self must not be 
prominent. Wisdom from Christ must be exercised in 
dealing with human minds. Every worker who deals 
with souls successfully must come to the work 
divested of self..... 
   Those who do not learn every day in the 
school of Christ, who do not spend much time in 
earnest prayer, are not fit to handle the work of 
God in any of its branches; for if they do, 
human depravity will surely overcome them and they 
will lift up their souls unto vanity. TM167-73 

ILLUSTRATIONS

   Do you remember the first time you fell 
in love? How you couldn't spend enough time 
with him? How the hours you were with her seemed 
like minutes? Perhaps you had a similar 
experience when you first recognized Christ's amazing 
love for you and your heart was filled with love 
for Him. As we busily serve the Lord, though, we 
can too easily lose the joy we knew when we 
first loved Him. The service that began as a 
response of deep affection for the Lord can 
deteriorate into acting merely out of a sense of duty; 
our Christian life can become routine, even 
drudgery. We must never allow religion to overtake our 
love relationship with God. 
   In the second century, Polycarp - who 
trained for ministry under the apostle John - served 
as a pastor. When a great persecution of 
Christians under Roman emperor Antonius Pius began, 
Polycarp was arrested. Ordered to renounce Christ, 
Polycarp boldly proclaimed: "I have served Him for 
eighty-six years, and He has done me no wrong. Can I 
revile my King who saved me?" 
   Polycarp was burned alive at the stake 
for a love that lasted almost nine decades. How 
has your love for Christ grown over the years? 
[Being Still With God Every Day by Henry Blackaby] 

   When I was little we used to play church. 
We would get chairs into rows, fight over who 
would be preacher, vigorously lead the hymn 
singing, and generally have a great time.  
   The aggressive kids naturally wanted to 
be up front, directing or preaching. The 
quieter ones were content to sit and be entertained 
by the upfronters.  
   Occasionally we would become mesmerized 
by a true sensationalistic crowd swayer, such 
as the girl who said, "Boo! I'm the Holy 
Ghost!" But in general, if the upfronters were 
pretty good, they could hold their audience quite a 
while. If they weren't so good, eventually the kids 
would drift off to play something else, such as 
jump rope or jacks.  
   Now that generation has grown up, but 
most of them have not changed too much. Every 
Sunday they still play church. They line up in rows 
for the entertainment. If it's pretty good, 
their church may grow. If it's not too hot, 
eventually they will drift off to play something else, 
such as yachting or wife swapping. Anne Ortlund  
   Anne is right. Many people today just 
play church, and it's truly sad because they 
really don't know what they are missing.  
   A minister I know used to say, "Wherever 
you are when it's time for church, you will be 
worshiping your god." If you are at home asleep, then 
sleep is your god. If you are on the golf course, 
then golf is your god. If you are working, then 
work is your god. Or if you are in the assembly 
of the saints and your heart is truly engaged 
in worship, then God really is your God.  
   Aren't you happy that God was not playing 
when he offered us his grace? 
   Forgive me Lord, for the times I fail to 
put you first in my life. I repent of my neglect 
and pray that you will draw me ever closer to 
you. Amen. [The One Year Devotional of Joy and 
Laughter by Mary Hollingsworth] 

Familiarity
   When Tim, an elder at our church, moved 
into his home in the Santa Monica Mountains five 
years ago, he was awestruck by an enormous rock 
formation that was set back from the main highway. The 
rock citadel towered majestically over the waters 
of a sparkling lake. "That first year I nearly 
ran myself off the road and into that lake half 
a dozen times, rubbernecking to get every view 
possible of its grandeur, at every time of day, in 
every different kind of light," Tim said, "the sun 
illuminated its dramatic cracks and crevices in so many 
diverse and magnificent ways. If that rock were in 
the middle of Kansas, it would draw a million 
visitors every year!" A few months ago he was driving 
a visitor from the airport to his home. They 
came around a corner and his guest exclaimed, 
"Look at that Rock!" to which Tim replied "What 
rock? Oh, that rock!" 
   The next week in church, Tim blushed as 
he told us about the incident. "It reminded me 
of the 'sin of familiarity' - a sin which only 
those who have seen and loved the grandeur of our 
Rock of our Salvation, Jesus Christ, can 
commit." 
   My elder-friend went on to say that 
familiarity with Christ keeps us from enjoying true 
intimacy with the Lord. We listen to Christian talk 
radio, thinking it suffices for our daily 
devotions. Or we reach for an article on the latest 
theological controversy, and fail to reach for the Word 
of God itself. Ask the Lord to give you a new 
sense of his presence and a fresh touch of his 
Spirit. Renew your commitment to love him with your 
whole heart, soul and strength. 
   Lord Jesus, you are my Rock and Fortress. 
You tower over every thing in my life. Forgive 
me when I take for granted your grace and 
strength in my life, and may I never, ever allow your 
death and resurrection to become 'familiar.'[Joni 
Eareckson Tada Daily Devotional: 
http://www.joniandfriends.org/daily-devotional re Deuteronomy 6:5-6] 

CLOSING THOUGHT

Returning to Our First Love
   When Jesus found a fatal flaw in the 
church at Ephesus - that they were leaving their 
first love - He also gave His prescription for 
renewal and revival. They are the three Rs of 
returning to our first love: remember, repent, and 
repeat. 
   First, you need to remember. This word 
could be translated, "Keep on remembering." What 
should you remember? You should remember where you 
were when Jesus Christ first found you. You were 
separated from Him by sin and on your way to a certain 
judgment. But He graciously and lovingly reached out 
to you and forgave you. All of us were 
separated from God and facing judgment. The essential 
thing Christ did for you is the same that He did 
for every person. 
   The psalmist described it this way: "He 
also brought me up out of a horrible pit, out of 
the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock, and 
established my steps. He has put a new song in my 
mouth-praise to our God" (Psalm 40:2-3). Every Christian 
can say this. That is what Christ did for us. 
   Second, you need to remember where you 
were at the highest point of your love for Jesus. 
When was that high point in your spiritual life? 
Was it a month ago? A year? Ten years? Or was it 
today? Could you say, "At this moment in my life, I 
believe I am as close to the Lord as I have ever 
been"? If you can say that, praise God. If not, 
remember when you were closest to the Lord, mark it 
in your mind, and make it your aim to return 
there once again. [Every Day with Jesus by Greg 
Laurie] 

PRACTICAL APPLICATIONS

   Be still in My presence, even though 
countless tasks clamor for your attention. Nothing is 
as important as spending time with Me. While 
you wait in My Presence, I do My best work 
within you: transforming you by the renewing of 
your mind. If you skimp on this time with Me, you 
may plunge headlong into the wrong activities, 
missing the richness of what I have planned for you. 
  
   Do not seek Me primarily for what I can 
give you. Remember that I, the Giver, am 
infinitely greater than any gift I might impart to you. 
Though I delight in blessing My children, I am 
deeply grieved when My blessings become idols in 
their hearts. Anything can be an idol if it 
distracts you from Me as your First Love. When I am 
the ultimate Desire of your heart, you are safe 
from the danger of idolatry. As you wait in My 
Presence, enjoy the greatest gift of all: Christ in 
you, the hope of Glory! (Rom. 12:2; Rev. 2:4; 
Col. 1:27) [Jesus Calling by Sarah Young] 

   I am speaking in the depths of your 
being. Be still, so that you can hear My voice. I 
speak in the language of Love; My words fill you 
with Life and Peace, Joy and hope. I desire to 
talk with all of My children, but many are too 
busy to listen. The "work ethic" has them tied up 
in knots. They submit wholeheartedly to this 
taskmaster, wondering why they feel so distant from Me. 
 
   Living close to Me requires making Me 
your First Love--your highest priority. As you 
seek My Presence above all else, you experience 
Peace and Joy in full measure. I also am blessed 
when you make Me first in your life. While you 
journey through life in My Presence, My Glory 
brightens the world around you. (Isa. 50:4; Rev. 2:4; 
Isa. 60:2) [Jesus Calling by Sarah Young] 

   In everything you do, put Me first, and I 
will direct you and crown your efforts with 
success. Putting Me first sounds so simple and 
straightforward. But the world, the flesh, and the devil war 
against your efforts to do this. You can easily 
justify letting other things creep into the space 
and time you had set aside for Me. If this 
happens only occasionally, it is just part of being 
human. However, if you see it becoming a pattern in 
your life, watch out! Your priorities may have 
been gradually shifting - until I am no longer 
your First Love.  
   Putting Me first is not an arbitrary 
rule; it is the way to live vibrantly, joyfully - 
close to Me. It is also the way to live 
purposefully, letting Me direct your steps. When I am your 
top priority, other things fall into their 
proper place. So delight yourself in Me first and 
foremost. As you walk in the Light of My Presence, I 
open up the path before you - and give you the 
desires of your heart. (Rev. 2:4; Psa. 37:4; 1Jo. 
1:7) [Jesus Today by Sarah Young] 

   Seek to live in My love, which covers a 
multitude of sins: both yours and others. Wear My 
Love like a cloak of Light, covering you from 
head to toe. Have no fear, for perfect Love 
decimates fear. Look at other people through lenses of 
Love; see them from My perspective. This is how 
you walk in the Light, and it pleases Me. 
   I want My Body of believers to be radiant 
with the Light of My Presence. How I grieve when 
pockets of darkness increasingly dim the Love - 
Light. Return to Me, your First Love! Gaze at Me in 
the splendor of holiness, and My Love will once 
again envelop you in Light. (1 Pet. 4:8; 1 John 
4:18; Rev. 2:4) [Jesus Calling by Sarah Young] 

   I am your treasure! Sometimes you feel 
frazzled - pulled this way and that by people and 
circumstances around you. Your yearning for meaning and 
deep connection drives you into more and more 
activity. Even when your body is still, your mind 
tends to race - anticipating future problems and 
searching for solutions. You need to remember that all 
the treasures of wisdom and knowledge are hidden 
in Me. Remind yourself of this glorious truth 
frequently, whispering: "Jesus, You are my Treasure. In 
You I am complete."  
   When you prize Me above all else, making 
Me your First Love, you are protected from 
feeling fragmented. Whenever you find your thoughts 
straying, you can train your mind to return to the One 
who completes you. This gives focus to your life 
and helps you stay close to Me. Living near Me, 
enjoying My Presence, involves seeking to obey My 
commands. I am telling you this so that My Joy may be 
in you and that your Joy may be complete.  
(Col. 2:2, 3; Rev. 2:4; John 15:10, 11) [Jesus 
Always by Sarah Young] 

   You cannot serve two masters. If I am 
truly your Master, you will desire to please Me 
above all others. If pleasing people is your goal, 
you will be enslaved to them. People can be 
harsh taskmasters when you give them this power 
over you.  
   If I am the Master of your life, I will 
also be your First Love. Your serving Me is 
rooted and grounded in My vast, unconditional Love 
for you. The lower you bow down before Me, the 
higher I lift you up into intimate relationship 
with Me. The Joy of living in My Presence 
outshines all other pleasures. I want you to reflect 
My joyous Light by living in increasing 
intimacy with Me. (Mat. 6:24; Rev. 2:4; Eph. 3:16, 
17; Psa. 16:11) [Jesus Calling by Sarah Young] 

PERTINENT CROSS REFERENCES FOR FURTHER STUDY

Revelation 3:2-3 (NLT) Wake up! Strengthen 
what little remains, for even what is left is 
almost dead. I find that your actions do not meet 
the requirements of my God. 3 Go back to what 
you heard and believed at first; hold to it 
firmly. Repent and turn to me again. If you dont 
wake up, I will come to you suddenly, as 
unexpected as a thief. 

1 John 2:24 (NLT) So you must remain 
faithful to what you have been taught from the 
beginning. If you do, you will remain in fellowship 
with the Son and with the Father.  

Colossians 2:6 (KJV) As ye have therefore 
received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in him: 

http://www.abible.com/devotions/2022/20220226-1002.html 

YOUR COMMENTS

If anyone has a paraphrase, commentary or 
testimony on this passage of Scripture, either 
personal or otherwise, I would be interested in 
hearing from you.  Thanks in advance and let's keep 
uplifting Jesus that all might be drawn to Him. Fred 
Gibbs  

LINKS WORTH CHECKING OUT

Most Important Decision in Life: 
http://www.youtube.com/embed/WGnEuGwvXqU?rel=0 

A Man without Equal by Bill Bright: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiVa7UoruIo 

Steps to Peace by Billy Graham: 
https://stepstopeace.org/ 

Seeking God Made Real: 
http://vimeo.com/31489782 

Prayer Made Real: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tc8VdMV26VE 

LINKS FOR BIBLE STUDIES 

Lifting Up Jesus Bible Studies: 
http://www.liftingupjesus.net/ 

Amazing Facts Bible Studies: 
http://www.amazingfacts.org/bible-study/bible-study-guides.aspx  

Voice of Prophecy Discover Bible Study 
Guides: 
https://www.voiceofprophecy.com/study/discover 

Glow Tract Video Bible Studies: 
http://www.bibleresearch.info/ 

LINKS FOR BIBLE PROPHECY SEMINARS

Unlocking Bible Prophecies by Cami Oetman of 
Adventist World Radio: https://www.awr.org/bible 

Panorama of Prophecy with Pastor Doug 
Batchelor: https://www.panoramaofprophecy.com/  

Hope Awakens by John Bradshaw of IIW: 
https://itiswritten.tv/programs/hope-awakens 

Prophecies Decoded by Pastor Ron Clouzet: 
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1A435C5373550657  

Islam and Christianity in Prophecy, The 
Third and Final Conflict by Tim Roosenberg: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHSJB-fuHLU&list=PLWhQIHGTHlkaGg5Cwe3NDzWtFX8vNSpsE